Why You’re Not Meeting Any Girls (and how-to fix it)

Do you know why you’re not meeting any girls? Do you know why your love life is a joke?

You obviously don’t because you’re here. You’re fed up with the fact that you can’t get laid, get a kiss, or even get a freaking number. This impacts on other areas of your life. You don’t have the confidence to do much at all. You feel miserable. You don’t wake up ready to attack the day. You’re tired of wasting all of your money too.

The good news is that every single dude has to go through this phase. Life isn’t all about successes and triumphant wins. There’s plenty of failure and stress to go through.

This is the biggest stage of failure that any dude on this planet will go through. The phase where you a struggle to get a number or even meet a chick. No dude wants to admit this, but well all go through droughts. We all go through that phase where nothing seems to happen.

If meeting girls was easy we would all be drilling beautiful girls all day every single day. It’s actually a process that takes many years (possibly decades or a lifetime) to master if you ever do master it.

You don’t have to go through the pain of struggling to meet girls for much longer. I’ve gone through this pain and have lived to write about it.

The answer is simple as to why you’re not meeting any girls…

You’re trying too damn hard!

“Come here!”

My buddy yelled at a girl to come over. I have no idea why he thought this was actually going to work.

Guess what? It didn’t work.

“Come here!!!”

He yelled at another girl. She didn’t come over.

Then he got rude.

He pretty much yelled at every single girl to come over. At the end of the night he came to the following wise conclusion:

“These girls are stuckup!”

Yes, it’s the girls fault for not dying to go home with you.

What kind of logic is that?

90% of guys try too hard.

I’ve met many girls by not caring. I simply wanted to ask a question, state something, or just shoot the shit. Instead I ended up with a new connection.

It never made any sense to me.

Some nights I just wanted to hang out or just go out for a quick drink. I wasn’t fixated on meeting anyone. Then I would meet someone.

The on some nights I would be dying to meet someone. I would put all the work in and plan for this night for days. Then the night would come and go with no results.

The problem is that 99% of guys try too hard. Girls are annoyed when you’re out solely for the point of getting laid. Despite the fact that every guy wants sex, some guys are able to convey value better while other guys pretty much beg for a number.

What’s the fix for this problem? How can you finally start meeting more girls?

Stop trying so hard for once.

I know, I know. This is the biggest catch 22 in the world. You’re likely new to this and want to go out to meet girls, but you’re supposed to make it seem like you don’t want to meet girls. What a joke eh?

It’s okay. I’ve mastered this art for you!

How do you stop trying?

  • Focus on yourself.
  • Live a fun lifestyle.
  • Make friends and go out to have fun.
  • Stop getting super wasted. You don’t need to be belligerent to go out.
  • Focus on your friends when you’re out.
  • Laugh with your friends when you’re out. Make it seem like you guys are the life of party.
  • Stop standing behind girls like a hawk!
  • Stop surveying the room frantically. Stay calm and focus on your crew.
  • Don’t talk about sex in the first sentence unless you’re an expert (I sometimes get away with this).
  • Meet girls in non-pickup places (gym, coffee shop, mall, etc.).
  • Don’t freak out if you don’t get laid.
  • Make the best out of every single night.

Please drop that stench of desperation. Girls can smell it from a mile away.

As counterintuitive as this sounds, I promise you that you’re going to meet more girls once you stop trying so damn hard!

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