There’s a little secret about picking up girls that you need to know now. This is a tip that most of us don’t realize how it affects us negatively. I’m not even going to wait. Here’s the secret…
You can’t stop moving objects. It’s much easier to keep on walking then it is to stop and talk to a complete stranger.
What do I mean by this? What’s this helpful tip for picking up girls all about?
I’m sure this has happened to you many times. You see a beauty, I’m talking a stunning chick, a perfect ten, a sweet smile, and a body that would turn the Pope’s head, walking by. Your goal as a player is to try to get her to stop to chat. You walk by, you smile, and you try to drop your sweetest intro ever. For some reason this chick doesn’t stop. Why wouldn’t she want to talk to a stud like you? What’s her problem? Does she know what she’s missing out on? Why didn’t she stop?
Do you know why chicks don’t stop when you try to get their attention on the streets? Because it’s just easier for them to keep on walking. According to basic physics it takes more effort to actually stop. It’s just not worth going against momentum. Likely 9 out of 10 times the girl you want to stop WILL NOT. This will leave you feeling stupid standing there like a complete dork while strangers laugh at you. This has happened to all of us.
How can you use this tip for picking up girls to your advantage?
Remember my friend, it’s only worth to fight battles that you at least have a chance of winning. Now I’m not saying that it’s impossible to get that cutie to stop. It’s just not worth it. Why crash and burn so badly when you don’t need to?
With this tip for picking up girls I recommend that you watch out for who you approach and how you approach them (don’t worry, we get into this in other posts).
For newbies it sucks to be turned down and it’s tough to deal with failure. When most of us fail we in turn end up bashing self-help sites (like this one) and we go back to our old ways. I don’t want this to happen to you. You need to understand that it’s simply easier for that attractive woman to keep on walking than it is for her to stop and chat with you.
That’s a tip for approaching women that I needed to share with you. You need to ensure that you don’t make this typical mistake. That’s enough for me for today. Enjoy your journey into the world of picking up girls!