“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” – Albert Einstein
There’s a reason why you’re not very successful with the new women that you meet. There’s a very good reason as to why you can’t intrigue that hottie into chatting with your or going home with you. The thing with self-help and us dudes being so stubborn in general is that we don’t want to admit to being wrong. We don’t want to admit to doing the wrong thing this whole time. It’s just the way us males are programmed.
“Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over again, but expecting different results.” – Einstein, again
The reason for this is that you compliment a woman too much when you first meet.
Now I know that it’s perfectly natural to tell that beauty with the long legs that you think she’s beautiful. It’s very tempting. What else would you talk about, aside from her looks? Nothing that I can think of at first. You just need to understand that complimenting random beautiful women at the bar is not the way to go.
Allow me to explain myself before you start bashing Picking Up Girls 101…
Why’s complimenting such an issue with learning how to approach women?
Think about it. A beautiful woman knows that she’s beautiful because every single guy tells her that she is (every single day). Imagine being a beautiful woman. You wake up and go to get your mail and a few guys will check you out. You walk to the grocery store and some dude will tell you how you’re so hot. Then you go to the gym and every dude in the place has his tongue on the floor. Then you go out for dinner and every single person from the Waiter to the Janitor is trying to pick you up. Wouldn’t that get annoying eventually?
Beautiful women are tired of being complimented all day. If you want to learn how to approach women you need to accept that you can’t be the sixth dude that compliments her that morning! What are the odds that she’ll actually remember you? Well they’re not good at all.
Stop complimenting women when you first met them.
The frequent compliments to all the new women that you want to attract need to stop right now. It’s not going to get you anywhere. This is the reason that you can’t intrigue new women.
The amazing news is that now you know what to do. Now you know that you can’t open up with a compliment. If you’re confused as to how to approach women without a complement, here are my suggestions:
- Poke fun at her.
- Bring up something random.
- Make fun of something.
Now that you understand that you shouldn’t compliment a women as soon as you approach her it doesn’t mean that you have to be a jerk. Don’t be a freaking jerk! It’s not cool and you might get slapped. If you want to approach a beautiful woman you must understand that you can’t compliment her right away.