If you want to begin a conversation with a woman the next time you leave your home, you’re at the right place.
Do I have your attention?
For some reason ,us dudes get totally nervous about the idea of figuring out how to approach a women and the thought starting a conversation. We have the ability to do totally stupid things but we just can’t bring ourselves to say hello to that hottie at the bar. It makes no sense.
Striking a conversation with a complete stranger is very intimidating for some of us naturally. The approach becomes even more intimidating when you want to approach a beautiful woman. The good news is that there’s a cure for this problem.
Luckily, you don’t have to go through the same gruelling process as me. All you have to do is read this article and apply the tips in here you lucky guy.
Below are 4 easy steps that will help you begin a conversation with a beautiful chick:
1. Have an opener or story or comment waiting.
I’m here to help you, not to judge you or to criticize what you do. Some of us are naturals right now. Others are going to need some practice. The amazing news is that just like with anything else in life, practise truly does make perfect.
This is why you might have to have an opener waiting (a cheat sheet in your pocket) before you approach that chick.
What are a few strong sample openers?
- A simple tease.
- An opinion-based question.
- A story about a “friend.”
- A joke.
Use your scripted opener until you’re ready to to venture off on your own and bust out your own lines.
2. Make an observation.
There’s always something going on around you. Why not crack a line? Make her laugh by making fun of someone doing something stupid around you.
This will show that you’re spontaneous and fun to be around. I try to do something funny like point out a couple and ask her what the odds are of them sleeping together that night. If there’s no couples around, I make fun of something that she’s doing or I look around until I find some sort of an observation.
Make an observation and you’re bound to begin a conversation with that beauty.
3. Smile as you begin.
You need to smile because you’re a positive dude that just owns shit. You’re only talking to her because you feel like it. There’s no need to have a serious face or to be concerned about anything. Fear is just not worth it. Anxiety holds us back from doing really cool hit in life.
Learning how to attract women is no different. Don’t be afraid of smiling. Smile when you see a cutie. Smile when life hands you a lemon. Most important of all, smile when you approach that hot chick. Let her see that she’s about to have the best damn convo of the day brother!
4. Don’t lean in.
Please don’t be a creeper that leans in. Leaning in is not cool, it scares the girl aways, and it makes you look freaking desperate to the MAX. Stay cool, calm, and collected. There’s no need to lean in because you’re the man and you have all the cool stuff to say. As tempting as it is to lean in, you need to remember to keep it cool.
On top of leaning in, it also helps to approach from an angle or from the side. Never pop up behind someone or confront them straight on. This can be intimidating and you can shock the poor girl. How can you begin a conversation with a hot chick if you’re sneaking up on her from behind?
These are four easy steps to help you begin a conversation with a woman. The next time you see a sexy girl around, you better say start talking or I’m going to have to kick your ass. No more excuses.