“You were so rude to her. How could she like you?”
I can’t remember how many times I’ve been presented with this question. I wish that I had a logical answer.
Common knowledge is all about showing respect, kissing ass, and waiting for your turn.
Well, hope isn’t a game plan!
Do the bad guys really have all of the fun? Do you have to be a jerk to feel in control and on top of the world?
I won’t even pretend to sugarcoat this. You can’t deny the truth.
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The bad guys have all of the fun!
Have you ever seen a jerk feeling bad? Have you ever seen an arrogant dude have a bad day? Have you ever seen a miscreant feeling sorry for themselves? Hell no. It doesn’t happen. The bad guys always have fun.
“You can’t have her. You already have that other girl that likes you.”
A friend once gave me grief about my courting.
THERE ARE NO RULES!
The bad guys do whatever they want, whenever they want. Bad guys don’t care. Bad guys are busy and don’t stress about girls because they have so much going on. The bad guys don’t stress about what others have to say about them either.
The bad boys have all of the fun because everyone else is too busy being nice and phoney. Villains don’t care how they come off because they believe in full transparency. Life’s too short to hide your beliefs.
With that being said, you might be curious about something…
How do you become a bad guy?
Sometimes you just can’t. You can’t fake it nor can you learn it. You might not have it in you to put yourself first.
You can try to slowly become the bad guy over time. You can break free from the chains of mediocrity and let loose to grab what life has to offer.
If you’re willing to give it a try, here are a few things to remember…
What are some common characteristics of the bad guy?
- They don’t care about what you think.
- They do what they want.
- They go after what they want.
- They’re relentless.
- They’re a gentleman when they need to be.
- They like to have fun.
- They don’t let anyone bring them down.
- They don’t feel sorry for themselves when things don’t work out.
- They live life on their own terms.
- They break hearts.
- They control the situation.
What are things that bad guys never do?
- Waste time.
- Feel pity.
- Blame others for their problems.
- Stress about the outcome.
- Stress about women.
The problem with nice guys is that their whole belief system is often flawed. They have been screwed up with a weak upbringing and now let people walk all over them.
How could you let a girl walk all over you?
How could you possibly allow someone to put you down?
Bad guys don’t have to deal with these problems.
Are you ready to become the bad guy?
Probably not. Most guys shouldn’t even bother. I urge you to give it a try to see if you have it in you to be selfish and self-centred.
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This is your wake up call to stop kissing ass. You don’t have to be a jerk. You just have to put yourself first once in a while. You have to do what’s best for you.
“To be successful you have to be selfish, or else you never achieve. And once you get to your highest level, then you have to be unselfish. Stay reachable. Stay in touch. Don’t isolate.” — Michael Jordan